Self-leadership is not a headline.Itโs a habit.A mindset.A quiet rebellion.The kind you choose when something in you refuses to settle.When your inner voice grows louder than your fears. This weekendโs fire was a living demonstration of what self-leadership can do.Women didnโt wait to be led.They showed up for themselves. Fully.…
๐๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ต ๐ข๐ต ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ. ๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ช๐ตโ๐ด ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ช๐ต ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฌ๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ ๐๐ถ๐น๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป. Iโve experienced it before and Iโve seen it play out. I had to call it out for myself. And I help other women call it out too.Because left unnamed,…
๐ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐. ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ. During #HerAfricanUbuntuLeadershipFellowship immersion last week, we kept returning to one thing: ๐ข๐๐ฟ ๐ต๐๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐๐. The parts we hide. The stories we edit. The emotions we label as too much. Echoing ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฒ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐บ๐ถ, all made sense: โ๐๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ…
๐ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ต๐ฉ ๐๐ช๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ. Thereโs something about this weekend. Maybe itโs the stillness. The sorting. Maybe itโs how Saturdays pull us into reflection without asking. While decluttering, I found one of my sonโs old schoolbooks. Not the same story, but it pulled me back.…
This really hits home. The line, โ๐ฌ๐โ๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง๐โ, though often well intended, can quietly kill growth; both personal and organizational. Iโve seen how it: โ Creates comfort zones where people stop pushing themselves to grow because family will understand โ Normalizes longevity over learning; people stay for years,…