๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

Self-leadership is not a headline.Itโ€™s a habit.A mindset.A quiet rebellion.The kind you choose when something in you refuses to settle.When your inner voice grows louder than your fears. This weekendโ€™s fire was a living demonstration of what self-leadership can do.Women didnโ€™t wait to be led.They showed up for themselves. Fully. Honestly. Audaciously. Thatโ€™s why mindset […]

๐—ข๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ?

๐˜ž๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ช๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป. Iโ€™ve experienced it before and Iโ€™ve seen it play out. I had to call it out for myself. And I help other women call it out too.Because left unnamed, it becomes part of the […]

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ฝ ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ฝ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ

๐—œ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐˜… ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€. ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—œ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ. During #HerAfricanUbuntuLeadershipFellowship immersion last week, we kept returning to one thing: ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†. The parts we hide. The stories we edit. The emotions we label as too much. Echoing ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—š๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ฅ๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ถ, all made sense: โ€œ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ข ๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ. […]

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต?

๐˜ˆ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜š๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ. Thereโ€™s something about this weekend. Maybe itโ€™s the stillness. The sorting. Maybe itโ€™s how Saturdays pull us into reflection without asking. While decluttering, I found one of my sonโ€™s old schoolbooks. Not the same story, but it pulled me back. ๐˜ฝ๐™–๐™˜๐™  ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ข๐™ฎ ๐˜พ๐™ก๐™–๐™จ๐™จ 5 […]

๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜†. ๐—” ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ

This really hits home. The line, โ€œ๐™ฌ๐™šโ€™๐™ง๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™›๐™–๐™ข๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™šโ€, though often well intended, can quietly kill growth; both personal and organizational. Iโ€™ve seen how it: โž› Creates comfort zones where people stop pushing themselves to grow because family will understand โž› Normalizes longevity over learning; people stay for years, not because they are evolving, […]

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